it’s wednesday, my dudes ~* to match the mood outside, i’m gonna be drip feeding today’s cuteness 🖤 quick little wednesday cosplay for you babes (and of course there’s a video involved)
2020-08-19 16:56:37 +0000 UTC View Post
probably won’t see these photos for another month but omg i can’t wait. needless to say, i am inspired to get out again 🖤 🖤
2020-08-17 11:01:30 +0000 UTC View Post
sneak peek of my shoot from this weekend and y’all get the first looks 🖤
2020-08-16 02:06:59 +0000 UTC View Post
i’ve been super depressed for the last month and here’s why: my parents are getting a divorce, the festival i’ve done for 7 years now is over, my PCOS is awful and I keep forgetting my meds, i’m gaining stomach and losing booty, our new roommate still has no job, my income is dropping, there’s months of laundry I haven’t done, and this COVID limbo is a nightmare 🖤
2020-08-10 15:26:32 +0000 UTC View Postlet’s talk about safewords! what are safewords? (a crash course): safewords are words or phrases agreed upon by a dominant and submissive (prior to a k*nk/f*tish scene or playtime) that indicate to all parties when something is going wrong. once a safeword is called, any activity is stopped in order to assess the problem and how best to solve it in the moment. the ideal safeword is something that would come out of left field and break the headspace. when creating your safeword, it’s important to think of how you react to stress. under immense stress, it’s common to freeze and forget to say anything besides “stop”. this is absolutely acceptable, but something you and your dom must be prepared for in advance. even when words aren’t possible, consider actions like taping out or foot stomps to convey a problem. i personally use the stoplight method: yellow means i like this scene but need to slow down or physically adjust, red or stop means everything ends. when the stop word has been called, everything stops and immediate aftercare is applied. when a stop word is called, that means STOP. any playtime is over, restraints are removed, and comfort is applied. aftercare starts immediately and we begin the prevention of our “drops”. ANY DOM WHO CONTINUES PAST A SAFE WORD IS ABUSING THEIR PARTNER, this is not up for debate. the point of calling safewords is in the name, safety. being aware of headspace as a dom and sub means everyone stays safe in the long run! be good, fellow heretics 🖤 (@the_gothbae)
2020-08-06 20:21:00 +0000 UTC View Posta fan reminded me i have these clips! send $15 for the collection of all 4 pov sexy time clips from daddy and i 🖤
2020-08-03 00:15:40 +0000 UTC View Post
y’all wanna hear what i’m getting tattooed in a month? you’re the only ones who get to know before the day of 😈 morticia addams as a mermaid, only her tail is a shark tail! only the first of many beautiful ladies that have shaped me being added to this leg. i also just helped a friend get back into the shop and once supplies come in my hand will have a sun & stars (my pet name for Daddy). i can’t wait to be covered, help me fund my tattoo journey and support artists please? the more i make, the better i can tip my artist 🖤
2020-08-01 03:17:31 +0000 UTC View Post
today was a good day ~* i booked a photoshoot for this monday, a tattoo session at the end of august, and thanks to lovely pets can buy my new high quality tail 🥰
2020-08-01 03:16:00 +0000 UTC View Postwho got this joi in their inbox? if you didn’t, you’re missing out 🥵🖤
2020-07-30 01:56:00 +0000 UTC View Post
yesterday we talked about “sub drop”, today let’s talk about “dom drop” 🖤 what is dom drop? just like for the submissive, doms can experience the same crash. during sex and kink/fetish scenes we know that chemicals like dopamine and adrenaline are released in high quantities for all parties involved! these hormones get you excited and then you feel the emotional and physical crash afterword the event. where these differ for tops and bottoms however is often the line of thinking associated with the emotional side of the crash. while symptoms may exhibit themselves the same way, the headspace involved affects the source of the negative feelings and thus how to care for it after. doms more frequently work through feelings of guilt and unworthiness for enjoying these typically negative actions, not to mention the vulnerability attached to finally being able to surrender the control you have over so many aspects during sex/a scene. and how do we prevent this? doms have a lot more to pay attention to than just their submissives entire experience, you also have to listen to yourself and understand how your experience in the moment may translate down the line. aftercare is not just for submissives and being able to express your own care needs to your sub will help everyone recover much quicker! that being said, in some cases just normally providing comfort and support for your sub as their aftercare is enough to help circumvent some of the negative emotions. and above anything, don’t be afraid to feel vulnerable. if you need comforting, allow yourself to let go and accept it. drop drop is a normal and natural reaction, no dom is expected to appear strong every moment of the day. allowing yourself to be vulnerable and “soft” is the best self care you can provide. stay safe fellow heretics 🖤
2020-07-29 15:49:00 +0000 UTC View Post
trying to balance my brain out 🖤 tip this post any amount to get the full 3+ min video and also make me feel better today 🥰
2020-07-28 17:24:49 +0000 UTC View Post
going through a bit of sub drop so let’s talk about it! vv what is sub drop? to put it simply, it’s the molly blues. during sex and kink/fetish scenes, chemicals like dopamine and adrenaline are released in high quantities. because these play so heavily on emotion, as a submissive it puts you into a very vulnerable (but exciting) headspace. however, after sex or the scene is over, those chemicals start dropping and your headspace needs time to process and adjust while your body deals with the sudden spike and crash of hormone levels. this causes a “drop” in mental energy, physical energy, emotional fortitude, and more (depending on the individual and intensity of the excitement). so how can we prevent this? first, is being aware of your headspace. understanding how deep your headspace is during the scene/sex will help you be able to not only anticipate the drop but also help you ask for help from your partner sooner. to help your sub, asking what they may need is a good start but keep in mind not everyone is aware of their needs or immediately feeling any effect. providing or receiving immediate loving and caring attention after words will help the transition. after that, checking in with your self is necessary. feeling irritable or weepy is normal, take time to provide extra self care in whatever way makes you feel most comfortable. drink water and eat well. the idea is to return the mind and body to a place of feeling safe and how a person needs to do that is always individual. whether it’s yourself or your sub, just ask! stay safe, fellow heretics 🖤
2020-07-28 14:34:52 +0000 UTC View Post
did a bratty dom pov video 😈 who wants me to tell them how to eat me out? dm me about a custom instruction video 🥵🖤
2020-07-22 04:21:09 +0000 UTC View Posti’ve been getting clothes in the mail... buy things off my wishlist so i can model them 🖤
2020-07-17 18:00:23 +0000 UTC View Post
i love working on my computer bc i find so many gorgeous old photos
2020-07-15 15:58:53 +0000 UTC View Posti lost a lot of weight recently and it made my body change, but i’m trying to remember that if eevee can evolve then so can i 🖤
2020-07-14 14:57:03 +0000 UTC View Post
i’ve been super self conscious lately 😶
2020-07-14 14:55:10 +0000 UTC View Postfunny how once i change the music i start doing better... 🥰🖤🔥
2020-07-10 11:55:48 +0000 UTC View Postfinally getting some practice in! may end up doing a full livestream, like this post if you would tune in! 🖤
2020-07-10 11:37:24 +0000 UTC View Post
belle delphine ain’t got nothin on me 🥵🔥🖤 (stills from a custom video)
2020-07-07 17:36:26 +0000 UTC View Post
i still love what i do 🥰🖤 (stills from a custom video)
2020-07-07 17:34:25 +0000 UTC View Post
hey there demons! it’s me, ya boi 🖤 (tldr: real g’s move in silence like lasagna, still taking custom requests but focusing on myself for a bit) since this page has been slowing down, i’m gonna take it as a sign from the Force to focus on the things i’ve been neglecting in my life. my content has been lacking, my house is in shambles, and i need to stop pushing myself so hard. i need to get off the phone, set regular business hours, crack down on making content, focus on myself, and put more time into my interests. y’all will still be getting access to exclusive photo sets and content (i still want the subscption price to be worth it), but more sexual stuff will be by custom request only. i miss being a fashion model, making music, and pole dancing. i want to put time into game streaming and culinary reviews. i also want to make sure y’all come on this journey with me 🖤 thank y’all so much for your continued support and for more regular updates, check my insta: @the_gothbae. love you so fuckin much, guys 🖤🖤🖤
2020-07-06 15:22:24 +0000 UTC View Post
tip this photo to get the full clip it comes from 🖤
2020-07-05 19:12:26 +0000 UTC View Postgoing for a walk and getting myself warmed up for daddy’s cock 🥵🖤 {don’t forget tips make me a happy kitten 🖤}
2020-07-05 12:39:28 +0000 UTC View Postcheck your inbox 😈 thanks to my favorite shop (passional boutique in philly), my favorite fans get the opportunity to purchase over 2 mins of playtime at one hell of a discount 🖤
2020-07-03 19:04:00 +0000 UTC View Post
okay okay, last one! this one makes me feel like an 80’s heartthrob 🖤 don’t forget to tip the post for clips and videos! 🖤 (see previous posts for pricing)
2020-07-02 21:22:25 +0000 UTC View Post
*~ n a u g h t y ~* (still read to the tune of freaky fred) ~check posts and the story for roulette pricing~
2020-07-02 20:24:07 +0000 UTC View Post
