Just a few minutes after this photo we decided to get into the hot tub. Slowly but surely, the crowd fizzled out as it got later. We were having a few drinks when another couple walked up and asked if they could join. Of course, we obliged š. Small talk started to ensue and we quickly began chatting about things we had in common. They are from GA and have spent many wkend trips/vacations in similar places as us. The drinks & conversations continuedā¦š When it comes to connecting with other people/couples in the Lifestyle, these are (general) rules we go by: 1) Attraction. We donāt mean this in a pretentious way, but letās be honestā¦there HAS to be attraction. Initially, that starts as physical but leads to⦠2) Personality. Personality goes a long way with us. Can they carry a conversation? Are they personable? Do they catch our attention? Personality can greatly increase attraction! 3) DTF. We usually know if weāre DTF before we even hang with someone/a couple in person based on previous chats. If itās someone/a couple we connect with in a moment, we still apply the same rules. It doesnāt take long for us to know. Admittedly, sometimes weāll be DTF and things donāt happen. There can be a few reasons for this, but generally speaking we know very quickly if we want to have playtime. Letās just sayā¦spontaneous (or planned) playtime is an incredibly sexually charged atmosphere we enjoy š